Why it’s so hard to enter into the territory of “Sex IS Ethics”? Why is it so taboo? Sex is used in such crazy and debilitating ways. People can be degraded and use sex as degradation. People take the worst forms of sexuality and then in their mind, what emerges, … Read More
The phallus, penis, cock, dick, member, pecker, prick, putz, tool, shaft, johnson, schlong, woody, manhood has always stood as a sexual symbol and the symbol of life-force itself. There are many stories and beliefs from ancient human history which say that blood is the carrier of spirit, energy, the soul … Read More
Recently, I have experienced friendly and intense discussions with clients and close friends about “divining the masculine” and what that might mean. With all the talk out there about women coming into their “divine feminine” power and sexuality which is so incredibly beautiful and crucial to the evolution of humanity … Read More
Glorious days in Maine when the summer sunlight dims earlier in the day and makes the radiance of openness even more glorious. It just wouldn’t be the same without being greeted by the saucy water-monkies in their chic hats. Sexy summer garb donning all the beautiful people, appreciating … Read More
What relationship type do you adhere to? Conventional monogamy…open relationship… polyamory… relationship anarchy… non-monogamy… and what I am going to call… post-conventional relationship? With all the talk out there about how human beings aren’t meant for monogamous relationships, there are many other labeled options. Each one of these options is … Read More
We live in a culture of sexuality where people can be confused around their desire to engage in the acts of dominating/submission (d/s). Some people swear by the d/s lifestyle and others are disgusted by it. Others love the energy when they are playing with d/s and at the same … Read More
Modern-day relationships are challenging and full of opportunities for increased personal awareness and growth. As our society enters a time of transition from the ego and the thinking mind to body/heart connection and personal enlightenment, we are experiencing and experimenting with different ways of being with our and each others … Read More
As I was growing up in the urban area of Chicago and coming into myself as a sexual being there was little opportunity for me to consciously learn how to accept myself as an erotic creature. As an adolescent teenager, there were lots of confusing and beautiful sexual desires in … Read More
Connecting lineages which I have become a part of has become such an important part of my evolution. When I saw an offer from one of my teachers Joseph Kramer, to give a free class to my readers, I could not pass it up. This connects the lineage and completes … Read More
The long arduous hours of web programming with the intention of hitting a larger audience to ultimately bring people together face to face, to have more fulfilling lives and relationships and, to end suffering. What I’m trying to give doesn’t need a shopping cart because my offerings aren’t products. My … Read More