It’s been too long since I created the time to sit and write my thoughts out. The last half a year has been an intense and incredible time. During this time I’ve witnessed and created many a kinky scene and have learned a lot. There has been lots of my … Read More
There is no end to our beginning, the pouring sweat and tears is ours, the pleasure is ours. Not for anyone to own or claim as theirs. We ride the waves of bliss and the depths of desire unfulfilled as we explore what it might be like exploring each others … Read More
How many times have you sat with your thoughts about loving someone, or some negative event regarding someone and were afraid to tell that person because of the fear of being judged, rejected, not being heard or just wanting to avoid the conflict altogether? Coming up with the courage to … Read More
Vulnerability…what does it mean? It means getting outside the protective ego and exposing your weaknesses and your desires in the face of being destroyed. If you want to have great sex and experience intimacy, a willingness to be sexually vulnerable is a must. First, physically, you are vulnerable. The man, … Read More
Dear Lover… Meet me in the wildest place of your dreams…where our dreams meet together to find us in places we could never have imagined… …me being penetrated by you and you being penetrated by me. We are all the same and we can see what we each bring to … Read More
Entering into intimate/sexual space with others requires an awareness in communicating our thoughts to others without shaming or blaming the other. It also requires a compassionate effort in receiving others communications which are directed towards us that may not be complimentary or feel good. How we choose to express ourselves … Read More
After a conversation with a beautiful new friend last night I became aware of how important it is for me to share with the world my practice of non-ejaculation and the reasons I choose this practice. This practice started when I was a teenager. The desire to be the best … Read More
There is a conversation in my men’s circles around speaking your truth without shame or blame and asking for what you want. I believe there is an innate desire in men to take care of the people around us, in our families, in our work, in our relationships and all … Read More
I want to start this off by dividing change into two categories. First is the change that we put forth in our lives, consciously and willingly. Secondly, there is the change that happens in which we do not take an active role in producing. I love it when I want … Read More
A couple weeks ago I was invited to a Solstice Celebration Ceremony by a new friend. The celebration was out of town with people that I did not know. I found myself a little nervous and excited as the time got closer. I have to set the background first… A … Read More