Love is Extension
Love is one of life’s greatest mysteries and to try to define love’s meaning is said to be far beyond our comprehension and some even say that love isn’t able to be taught. Within the human condition where duality reigns, the opposite of love is fear. Love is joy, peace, acceptance and connection… while fear is projection, judgment, attack and separation. People think they need to seek to find love when love has created us and is inside of us already because we are made from the unconditional love of the universe/god.
From a completely human perspective where we look at things through a dualistic and polarity lens, the longing to be completed by our polar opposite makes complete sense. We have a sense of longing for the feminine/masculine form that will bring to us more balance. That form is a natural and worldly way to look at love as a way that will bring and give us something from the outside world which will complete us and make us more whole than we are already. It works but, has a limited shelf life because we eventually realize that the only way to holiness and wholeness is realizing that from the inside and not through the outside world. As within, so without.
From the inside and the spiritual sense we are already complete and we don’t need anything to make us more whole. When we think we are lacking of anything, it is typically from a source of fear which has come from the past and projects us into the future… a place where past and future do not exist (yet or anymore). There is no fear in the present because only love lives in the present. In every instant we get to choose connection or separation, to extend love’s gratitude and affection or contract into fear’s separation and isolation. We can detach ourselves from stories of unworthiness and any lack from our past without its shadow reaching and dictating us into the future. A place where no darkness is remembered and joy and love are now… where we are at peace and whole.
Love then becomes an offering by giving the gifts of peace, joy and happiness we have cultivated inside of us…. extending outward so that love might expand… where there is no separation from each other. Love extends outward simply because it cannot be contained. We are put here on the planet to continually remind each other of our complete wholeness and holiness. The extension of love from ourselves to others will extend to every aspect of our lives where we carry the message of joy, safety and freedom to everyone who we may come into contact with.
Let’s make a choice to unite through unconditional and undefended love, otherwise known as universal love or god’s love, where our vision has the power to see people in their complete wholeness. It’s a form where we both can choose to firmly hold the vision through the lens of god’s eyes while we look at each other in complete perfection. Communication instead of separation becomes one of the main priorities, which cannot be done through our bodies alone but, in our choice of “seeing”. Choosing to create for each other a perfect shelter where our true selves can be continually reborn in safety and in peace. Only in this joint union and welcoming the effects of love can healing be found. 
Once we have realized there is more to our individual minds’ ideas to how and what we identify ourselves with, we can start to see things a little bit different. We are all participating in each others growth and evolving consciousness … where all parts are growing intertwined with each other. Never separate. It is the feeling of our complete wholeness and of life’s unfolding where everything and everyone participates. This is an ongoing and continuous movement unaware yet of our fullest potential where our state’s of being are short-lived and we realize the process is about our becoming. Is “becoming” a form that we take or a part of ourselves that we wish to change? Maybe a little confusing at this point.
A powerhouse in a way of being in relationship with self, other and the universe is in the constant mirrored reflection of each others greatness and recognition that each others’ inner core and our soul is pure love…. what we see in others are the same things that exist in us. All of the good and all of the bad. All of the light and all of the dark.